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When You Encounter An Alternative Harassment From Your Boss.

2010/10/21 9:53:00 48

Boss

Do not play eye drop, do not be opinionated.

This "

Harass

It's not "harassment" as you imagine.


Look out

Workplace

In many cases, we will be asked by our boss to do something beyond the scope of work, which is not what you are willing to do.

What should we do when we encounter these "harassment"?


Encounters: Sammy 25 year old company clerk


The manager's recent face can only be expressed with a song: "recently bored."

Originally, he is a very friendly boss, though he is not too serious, he often laughs and laughs with us, and occasionally asks us to go out for a small meal.

But recently, his facial expression is clearly like fog, rain and wind. When working, he often wears a face and doesn't say anything. Several of us are swept away by his nameless fire.

So several of us were secretly intriging information to the manager to put up the "trademark" of dangerous explosives. We need to be careful. We must tighten our tail and behave ourselves.


It was during a lunch at noon that the manager himself revealed the truth.

The culprit was that he was studying high school son.

Although the manager is high in weight, he plans strategizing in the company and manages 100 people, but at home, he is absolutely not sure about his son.

The child was in rebellious times when he was in his youth. Rebellious children liked to do things against the rules, so he had a long hair.

The teacher criticized him for violating the school rules and regulations, and asked him to go to school after he had cut it. If he did not cut it, he would not come to school.


Then he stayed at home without going to school. The manager was so big that he pushed off all kinds of entertainment in the evening and went back to his son every day.

First, come soft, coax him to go to school, buy him the latest NIKE model, take him to Europe on vacation, no, then come hard, if not, no living expenses, or not.

So soft and hard, the tongue was worn away, but the son refused.

After that, the boss drank a mouthful of soup. Suddenly he raised his head and said to our new employees here, "if you don't help me, you may have a common language with him."


So we took the "dead horse and live horse doctor" mentality, we took turns to persuade his son in his family, but the first few of them didn't make much contribution. It was my turn to go that day. I was nervous in my heart. Although it was just a little child, it was always ordered by the manager. Although there was a little dessert, it was not enough to be reluctant to part with it, but it was still on the part of the manager's poor parents that he had pushed off the appointment with his boyfriend.


At the beginning of his family, I used the psychology of former university to "cheat" his son's trust.

The children of this age despise the rules of the school most, and I will join him in pointing out the words and inspiring words.

After a little bit of maturity, I began to "exaggerate" his "taste and hairstyle like Jerry Yan". In fact, I know that most boys do not like F4, and they are extremely scornful.

Sure enough, his brows began to wrinkle.

I add fuel to the fire. Left, right and right, look, "yes, your face matches this hairstyle. Actually it's more like Takako Matsu, my favorite Japanese...

Woman...

Star. "

A frustrated expression began to appear on the face of the child. I think he was quickly pouting and unconscious.

Then I took a roundabout tactic and pulled him out to see a movie. After watching, he said, "do you think it would be better if I cut a Jay Chou hairstyle?"


Oh, at this time, I knew that I had successfully completed the task of my father's troubled father.


Comment: Although this boss gives his subordinates a super hard task, it is also a private affair outside the scope of work. However, because this is more like a helpless father's "helpless Ma Ma living doctor", his subordinates do not need to feel meaningless disgust.

In fact, such a thing is more advantageous than disadvantages. If you don't work well, your boss will not blame you. After all, he can't handle it well. But if you do well, then your personal friendship with your boss will be enough. It will provide you with countless advantages in your career path.


Harassment two: Leadership wife "

kindness

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Encounters: Xiao Jing, 26 years old pr


I had a primary school student acting as a cosmetics agent. He always came to me with an eloquent voice to tell me how good the make-up was, just like a fairy water.

For her sales, I can tell the truth. I don't like this stuff. I'm using other brands of cosmetics, or more directly, I have no money lately.

After all, it's a familiar person. It's okay to say so. But if a leader's wife comes to sell you, what do you do?


I encountered this situation in the previous company.

The manager of the Department commenting on the skin of several of our girls at rest time, and finally came to the conclusion that our skin has a lot of problems, not wrinkles or acne, not too dry or too oily.

Then he gave us a personal statement, saying that his wife's skin could not be seen before. It was all a yellow faced woman. But now it's ok because it used a brand of cosmetics.

Then he comforted us not to worry. If we needed it, we could ask his wife to help us.


At this time, we finally understood his intentions. Indeed, he repeatedly said that his wife's cosmetics were really effective, and it took a month to make skin fat.


Unexpectedly, I actually received a phone call from my manager's wife and told me to do skin tests for me.

How could I refuse this kind of kindness? I went to her beauty studio. After a test, she suggested that I use her company's skin care products to make a fool of herself. But I really hurt the four digit prices.

Do not buy, do not give the leader face, buy, sorry his wallet, finally I weigh it, only bought two of them.

I had already given her a face, but I could see clearly that her face was not satisfied.


Back to communicate with colleagues, everyone was harassed.

And we really sneered at our boss's behavior, and hated his wife's insatiable attitude towards snakes.

So we have reached a consensus and will never let her succeed. We are subordinate, but we have no obligation to buy his wife and stuff.


Later, when his wife tried to test her skin again, I told her that I was not free, and that my colleagues did the same thing, so that we formed an alliance to resist the good intentions of our wife.


Comment: this leader's practice is not very good at all. When more than one colleague who has been infringed on his interests, he can definitely establish an offensive and defensive alliance to confront the "harassment" of the leader.

As the saying goes, united strength is great. There is another saying that "the law does not blame the public". So many people observe the same agreement together, and the leader must bid or not.


Harassment three: Hobbies become reasons for dispatch


Encounters: Emmy 27 year old administrative personnel


I have a hobby, that is photography.

Although I am a girl, I am very interested in playing professional cameras. Although the technology has not yet reached the professional level, it has been a small celebrity in the circle of friends, and the pictures taken are always appreciated by everyone.

As long as there is a happy day, what birthday, commemorative meeting or anything, I will be asked to take some photos of them, leaving some pleasant memories.


In the unit, there are year-end parties or usual important occasions, will also find me to be a "Guardian photographer", reputation outside, being sent by the boss, of course, is a matter of course.


On one occasion, the boss asked me to help me to give his sister a wedding photo. Although I didn't know anybody at the banquet, I was bored to death, but after all, it was a busy affair. When I saw the happiness of the bride and bridegroom, I kept pressing the shutter to record the happy moment for them.

When he gave the photo to the boss, he was happy to praise that the picture was well done.


Because he helped him, he had a better attitude towards me than any other employee and would give me any chance, just as I had a personal friendship with him.


But not so many good things.

Last Friday, the boss called me. He said there was something wrong with his family this weekend. He wanted me to take a camera to help me take some pictures. He also said that he would drive home to pick me up at half past four in the morning on the second day.

I was a little puzzled, but the boss opened his mouth and promised.


Early that morning, I went downstairs and wondered what was going to happen so early. The boss's car was waiting for me downstairs.

In the car, the boss didn't say a word, and I didn't dare to ask. When he came near the boss's house, he slowly opened his mouth.

It turned out that his mother-in-law had passed away and needed me to take some photos at the funeral.

My mood fell to the bottom of my mind, and the camera in my hand was never sinking.


Although I used to comfort myself with "come and go", I just took a few pictures, and why he did so much. But when I took pictures, I still felt very uncomfortable with the old grandmother's body.


Although the boss is very sorry about this, but since then, if anyone asked me to take a picture, I would ask the dress code clearly, in fact, I want to know what kind of occasion it is.

I think if the boss asks me to help me again, I will do everything possible to refuse.


Comment: the boss asks for help. Although he is embarrassed to refuse, he still needs to ask before he knows what to do.

If it is really embarrassing, or as soon as possible to find a reasonable reason to refuse to get rid of it, when the heart is like eating a fly can not say uncomfortable.


After reading these stories, you should suddenly understand what we mean by "harassment" here.


Faced with the "harassment" of the boss, if it is a matter of principle, we should bravely say "no" when we say no.


And if you don't violate your principles, it's just a matter of doing nothing. It's better to do it for your friends.

Maybe he is your boss now, but when you help him finish this, he becomes your friend. Why not?

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