Perfectionist: Afraid Of Failure, Not Going Forward.

Mark Twin said: courage is not fear but conquering fear and conquering fear.

As an interior designer, Liu Nali has a dazzling achievement, and many works of his design have been affirmed by authoritative experts in the industry.

But what you don't know is that this young rising star is a typical procrastination patient.

"Every time I want to make a picture, I have to go to Taobao first, actually I don't want to buy anything, but I have to go for a stroll, or I don't have any inspiration."

This visit usually takes up her half a day, and when she finds "inspiration", it is usually three or four p.m.

This makes her work rhythm always in the late state, often until one o'clock at night to complete the day's work.

"For example, I have a month to complete the design of a villa, which should be more relaxed.

But the truth is, for the first three weeks, I was basically in the process of finding inspiration. I always seem to be thinking about creative ideas, but I haven't done any practical work at all.

Basically, in the last week, if we don't do it again, the boss's customers will be in a hurry, and I will push myself to do it.

Liu Nali admits that 80% of his works were completed at the last minute.

The reporter asked her, did you analyze your behavior? She smiled cheerfully and even said she knew everything.

"I am expecting too much of myself. I always remember that this time I must be better than last time, or I always feel that I can improve a little bit.

Therefore, when we start to do things, we often hesitate, for fear that we will not achieve the desired results.

In particular, I hope I can have a good start.

You know, how important it is for a creative person to have a good start! This is the signal that inspiration can pour out. If I can't find a sense when I come up, it usually means that the whole design can only be a normal standard.

Dr Bi, of University of California, observed that people who are afraid of failure may have their own set of assumptions.

For example, what I do is directly responsive to my ability; my level of ability determines what I have as a person.

That is to say, the stronger my ability is, the higher my sense of self-worth; what I do reflects my personal value.

Dr Birry expressed his views in terms of self worth = ability = performance equation.

Mark Twin said:

It is not fear but conquering fear and conquering fear.

As an interior designer, Liu Nali has a dazzling achievement, and many works of his design have been affirmed by authoritative experts in the industry.

But what you don't know is that this young rising star is a typical procrastination patient.

"Every time I want to make a picture, I have to go to Taobao first, actually I don't want to buy anything, but I have to go for a stroll, or I don't have any inspiration."

This visit usually takes up her half a day, and when she finds "inspiration", it is usually three or four p.m.

This makes her work rhythm always in the late state, often until one o'clock at night to complete the day's work.

"For example, I have a month to complete the design of a villa, which should be more relaxed.

But the truth is, for the first three weeks, I was basically in the process of finding inspiration. I always seem to be thinking about creative ideas, but I haven't done any practical work at all.

Basically, in the last week, if we don't do it again, the boss's customers will be in a hurry, and I will push myself to do it.

Liu Nali admits that 80% of his works were completed at the last minute.

The reporter asked her, did you analyze your behavior? She smiled cheerfully and even said she knew everything.

"I am expecting too much of myself. I always remember that this time I must be better than last time, or I always feel that I can improve a little bit.

Therefore, when we start to do things, we often hesitate very much, for fear that we will not achieve our expectations. We hope that we can have a good start.

You know, how important it is for a creative person to have a good start! This is the signal that inspiration can pour out. If I can't find a sense when I come up, it usually means that the whole design can only be a normal standard.

Dr Bi, of University of California, observed that people who are afraid of failure may have their own set of assumptions.

For example, what I do directly reflects my ability; my ability determines my value as a person, that is to say, the stronger my ability is, the higher my sense of self-worth; what I do reflects my personal value.

Dr Birry expressed his views in terms of self worth = ability = performance equation.